就好比昨晚将近九点......我们经过vivo 促销场所，就被逮着，主办单位要我的小瓜当临时摸特儿， 还有机会赢奖品!! 虽然不晓得幸运之神会不会卷顾我们，但给了我们以下珍贵照片，我们已经很开心了 =D
About Me
- Junnie
- Singapore
- I'm a working mama with two cuties - zann & lance, although they drive me 'nuts', but i adore them very much =)
03 July 2009
不必太刻意
我认为有些时候不必太刻意去安排做莫件事情，反而会不劳而获!! 哈哈!!
就好比昨晚将近九点......我们经过vivo 促销场所，就被逮着，主办单位要我的小瓜当临时摸特儿， 还有机会赢奖品!! 虽然不晓得幸运之神会不会卷顾我们，但给了我们以下珍贵照片，我们已经很开心了 =D
就好比昨晚将近九点......我们经过vivo 促销场所，就被逮着，主办单位要我的小瓜当临时摸特儿， 还有机会赢奖品!! 虽然不晓得幸运之神会不会卷顾我们，但给了我们以下珍贵照片，我们已经很开心了 =D
27 May 2009
What a Friday!!
hiaz.. dun understand howcome i'm always soooooo busy!! may b god tink i shdnt 'b lazy'!! hehe..
i thot applied a day leave on 22.05.2009 to enjoy myself @ long waiting Crocs Sales once door opened prior meeting old classmates for lunch, also cannot =(
on 21.05.2009, after sending zann to childcare centre, i proceeded to united square to attend SQ corporate a/c half-day orientation on behalf my boss. usually zann'll be v excited if have schl excursion, however, tat day, not the same. i didnt realise any symptom tat's she gonna fall sick. then halfway thru the orientation, i rcvd an sms fm hb saying teacher called him to pick-up zann up fm the farm cos she vomitted in the schl bus on way to the farm. hb said he'll picked her up and send her to nanny house. i didnt quite worry much cos i thot she might hv some indigestion or wat. later hb sms again said feed her some medicine & she still vomitted, so i told him to send her to gp 1st. after the orientation, i went straight to clinic to meet them, but they alr consulted the gp. so we send her back to nanny house again. she vomitted again infront nanny house & she looks so lethargic. after i settled her, i returned to work. nanny called later afternoon said not much improvements as she vomitted her lunch (plain porridge)... so afterwork, we sent her to gp again. tis time, gp inserted medicine thru her backside to stop the vomit, saying if vomit persist next 4hrs, better to send her hospital.
true enuff, vomit didnt stopped, as long she takes water, etc, she'll throw out and she begins to develop fever. so i told hb need to send her nuh cos we wont b able to handle if middle of nite. after get ready by 10+pm, hb sent us to nuh, along was lance cos tis notti boy refused to sleep, cant even ask my mum help swing him in sarong! he thot going 'gai gai'!!! after hb dropped us, i went A&E with zann.. lucky there wasnt any queue, we were attended by nurse/doc v fast. as she vomitted the syrup given by doc to prevent dehydration, doc said better to admit her as she has dehydration le. after some simple paper work, she was told to go in the waiting area for setting plug. zann's a brave gal, she didnt cry at all & told me jus like 'ant's bite'! probably she's older & she understand & she also experienced it last time she has uti. we were sent to the ward by 12+am. nothing much cud b done tat day except to i keep sponging her, monitor her condition, nurses take temperature & gvparaceltamol as she was on drip. daytime, ward doc checked said is stomach flu... got to monitor another day cos she's not taking any food/water.
i thot applied a day leave on 22.05.2009 to enjoy myself @ long waiting Crocs Sales once door opened prior meeting old classmates for lunch, also cannot =(
on 21.05.2009, after sending zann to childcare centre, i proceeded to united square to attend SQ corporate a/c half-day orientation on behalf my boss. usually zann'll be v excited if have schl excursion, however, tat day, not the same. i didnt realise any symptom tat's she gonna fall sick. then halfway thru the orientation, i rcvd an sms fm hb saying teacher called him to pick-up zann up fm the farm cos she vomitted in the schl bus on way to the farm. hb said he'll picked her up and send her to nanny house. i didnt quite worry much cos i thot she might hv some indigestion or wat. later hb sms again said feed her some medicine & she still vomitted, so i told him to send her to gp 1st. after the orientation, i went straight to clinic to meet them, but they alr consulted the gp. so we send her back to nanny house again. she vomitted again infront nanny house & she looks so lethargic. after i settled her, i returned to work. nanny called later afternoon said not much improvements as she vomitted her lunch (plain porridge)... so afterwork, we sent her to gp again. tis time, gp inserted medicine thru her backside to stop the vomit, saying if vomit persist next 4hrs, better to send her hospital.
true enuff, vomit didnt stopped, as long she takes water, etc, she'll throw out and she begins to develop fever. so i told hb need to send her nuh cos we wont b able to handle if middle of nite. after get ready by 10+pm, hb sent us to nuh, along was lance cos tis notti boy refused to sleep, cant even ask my mum help swing him in sarong! he thot going 'gai gai'!!! after hb dropped us, i went A&E with zann.. lucky there wasnt any queue, we were attended by nurse/doc v fast. as she vomitted the syrup given by doc to prevent dehydration, doc said better to admit her as she has dehydration le. after some simple paper work, she was told to go in the waiting area for setting plug. zann's a brave gal, she didnt cry at all & told me jus like 'ant's bite'! probably she's older & she understand & she also experienced it last time she has uti. we were sent to the ward by 12+am. nothing much cud b done tat day except to i keep sponging her, monitor her condition, nurses take temperature & gvparaceltamol as she was on drip. daytime, ward doc checked said is stomach flu... got to monitor another day cos she's not taking any food/water.
there goes my shopping for crocs sales =( i'm supposed to cancel my lunch appt with my classmates, but hb insist i proceed as he cud relieve me cos he can finish his job in the morning + also need to take my lunch moreover my appt had been long scheduled. so i continue to meet my classmates for lunch @ ding tai feng (dtf), raffles city. bumped into joanne peh & european bf on way to seach for my classmates @ dtf. she's soooo pretty!! my classmates - ky & yc were shocked that i still turned up since zann in hospital, i told them our appt is pre-arranged v long ago, dun wanna give it a miss since zann's under observation & daddy gv green light for me to attend.. oni bad new is i hv to shorten our lunch appt! hehe..
very nice to catch up with old classmates on various topics, cos everyone of us so busy and must take leave then can meet! last time when single, to meet once a month is compulsory for us to keep-in-touch. eversince married with kids, tings not the same anymore, so difficult to find ME time. lucky ky bring along her camera tat day and here we get to take some pix together aft donkey years!!!
very nice to catch up with old classmates on various topics, cos everyone of us so busy and must take leave then can meet! last time when single, to meet once a month is compulsory for us to keep-in-touch. eversince married with kids, tings not the same anymore, so difficult to find ME time. lucky ky bring along her camera tat day and here we get to take some pix together aft donkey years!!!
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our lunch approx 2-3hr nia, then i got to rush back hospital cos hb sms said zann so notti, spit out the medicine nurse fed her & make a fuss till she vomitted on the bed, so messy!!! agggrrr.. tis gal really trying daddy's patience... she dun dare to do silly tings if i'm w her. when i reached, she's still lying on bed so lazily... daddy said cant tahan her tantrum. friday nite, her fever was v high, 39.5.. i was so lost cant help her much, except to keep sponging her. being @ nuh was v familar, most doctors & nurses once saw my face oni 1st thot is 'lance' again? i told them 'choi choi choi'... is lance's sister not him!! they still remembered us due to lance's long admission last year. by sat morning, zann's fever subsided, i hv to keep persuading her to drink/eat... she jus simply no appetite and will throw tantrum whenevers u disturbed her fm lazying on the bed!! i hv to 'serve' her like a 'queen' bring her in&out the toilet with the drip & drip-stand. i told doc i need to go home by sunday cos daddy's is flying off in the even & i hv no bbsitter for lance. thank god, she was discharged on sunday despite her appetite still not v good, tat's ends our 3D2N @ nuh, phiew......
didnt let her go childcare tis few days as her appetite still not v good, many thks to nanny helping look after her. hopefully she can go back to schl tomorrow =)
15 May 2009
Hee....Hee....
Thanks to dodo then i get a chance to visit my own blog and do some update .. cos i jus tooooo lazy le!!!! Ooops!!!!
The Truth
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships.. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is." Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".
NO POINTING FINGERS A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you." We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS? A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, and good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television." There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
NO OVERPOWERING Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character." It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations...
RIGHT SPEECH There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you." Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them rides on the donkey?" Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey. Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman." The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear... BE PATIENT This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, "Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "But when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide. Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired... Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
NO POINTING FINGERS A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you." We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS? A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, and good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television." There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
NO OVERPOWERING Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character." It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations...
RIGHT SPEECH There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you." Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them rides on the donkey?" Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey. Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman." The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear... BE PATIENT This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, "Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "But when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide. Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired... Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
28 April 2009
I love this Doctor!!
Q: Doctor, I've heard that cardiovascular exercise can prolong life; is this true?
A: Your heart is only good for so many beats, and that's it... don't waste them on exercise. Everything wears out eventually. Speeding up your heart will not make you live longer; that's like saying you can extend the life of your car by driving it faster. Want to live longer? Take a nap.
Q: Should I cut down on meat and eat more fruits and vegetables?
A: You must grasp logistical efficiencies. What does a cow eat? Hay and corn. And what are these? Vegetables. So a steak is nothing more than an efficient mechanism of delivering vegetables to your system. Need grain? Eat chicken. Beef is also a good source of field grass (green leafy vegetable). And a pork chop can give you 100% of your recommended daily allowance of vegetable products.
Q: Should I reduce my alcohol intake?
A: No, not at all. Wine is made from fruit. Brandy is distilled wine, that means they take the20water out of the fruity bit so you get even more of the goodness that way. Beer is also made out of grain. Bottoms up!
Q: How can I calculate my body/fat ratio?
A: Well, if you have a body and you have fat, your ratio is one to one. If you have two bodies, your ratio is two to one, etc.
Q: What are some of the advantages of participating in a regular exercise program?
A: Can't think of a single one, sorry. My philosophy is: No Pain...Good!
Q: Aren't fried foods bad for you?
A: YOU'RE NOT LISTENING!!! .... Foods are fried these days in vegetable oil. In fact, they're permeated in it. How could getting more vegetables be bad for you?
Q: Will sit-ups help prevent me from getting a little big around the middle?
A: Definitely not! When you exercise a muscle, it gets bigger. You should only be doing sit-ups if you want a bigger stomach.
Q: Is chocolate bad for me?
A: Are you crazy? HELLO Cocoa beans! Another vegetable!!! It's the best feel-good food around!
Q: Is swimming good for your figure?
A: If swimming is good for your figure, explain whales to me!!
Q: Is getting in-shape important for my lifestyle?
A: Hey! 'Round' is a shape!
Well, I hope this has cleared up any misconceptions you may have had about food and diets. And remember: 'Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming 'WOO HOO, What a Ride' !!!
A: Your heart is only good for so many beats, and that's it... don't waste them on exercise. Everything wears out eventually. Speeding up your heart will not make you live longer; that's like saying you can extend the life of your car by driving it faster. Want to live longer? Take a nap.
Q: Should I cut down on meat and eat more fruits and vegetables?
A: You must grasp logistical efficiencies. What does a cow eat? Hay and corn. And what are these? Vegetables. So a steak is nothing more than an efficient mechanism of delivering vegetables to your system. Need grain? Eat chicken. Beef is also a good source of field grass (green leafy vegetable). And a pork chop can give you 100% of your recommended daily allowance of vegetable products.
Q: Should I reduce my alcohol intake?
A: No, not at all. Wine is made from fruit. Brandy is distilled wine, that means they take the20water out of the fruity bit so you get even more of the goodness that way. Beer is also made out of grain. Bottoms up!
Q: How can I calculate my body/fat ratio?
A: Well, if you have a body and you have fat, your ratio is one to one. If you have two bodies, your ratio is two to one, etc.
Q: What are some of the advantages of participating in a regular exercise program?
A: Can't think of a single one, sorry. My philosophy is: No Pain...Good!
Q: Aren't fried foods bad for you?
A: YOU'RE NOT LISTENING!!! .... Foods are fried these days in vegetable oil. In fact, they're permeated in it. How could getting more vegetables be bad for you?
Q: Will sit-ups help prevent me from getting a little big around the middle?
A: Definitely not! When you exercise a muscle, it gets bigger. You should only be doing sit-ups if you want a bigger stomach.
Q: Is chocolate bad for me?
A: Are you crazy? HELLO Cocoa beans! Another vegetable!!! It's the best feel-good food around!
Q: Is swimming good for your figure?
A: If swimming is good for your figure, explain whales to me!!
Q: Is getting in-shape important for my lifestyle?
A: Hey! 'Round' is a shape!
Well, I hope this has cleared up any misconceptions you may have had about food and diets. And remember: 'Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming 'WOO HOO, What a Ride' !!!
14 April 2009
13 April 2009
Faster
kuai dian, kuai dian..... i managed to change layout of my blog & add my guinea pig!!
cant wait to share my blog w my friends..... next, i hope to share more on zann & lance's developments... really regret i didnt set-up one for both of them when they were newborns... now so difficult to recall exactly what happened, may be can only capture certain unforgettful events nia.... hiaz... may b as a start, can only share their pixs....
http://www.slide.com/r/OnmYbfYk7j902mNHrbpSu2qt9Y9oi-NU?previous_view=mscd_embedded_url&view=original
http://www.slide.com/r/zntDPAck7j_gbJRT6WtFBFVw2-_AFKCZ?previous_view=mscd_embedded_url&view=original
http://www.slide.com/r/Q_bm5RR36D8Xth9CZMtEhJKGmv6ATciR?previous_view=mscd_embedded_url&view=original
cant wait to share my blog w my friends..... next, i hope to share more on zann & lance's developments... really regret i didnt set-up one for both of them when they were newborns... now so difficult to recall exactly what happened, may be can only capture certain unforgettful events nia.... hiaz... may b as a start, can only share their pixs....
http://www.slide.com/r/OnmYbfYk7j902mNHrbpSu2qt9Y9oi-NU?previous_view=mscd_embedded_url&view=original
http://www.slide.com/r/zntDPAck7j_gbJRT6WtFBFVw2-_AFKCZ?previous_view=mscd_embedded_url&view=original
http://www.slide.com/r/Q_bm5RR36D8Xth9CZMtEhJKGmv6ATciR?previous_view=mscd_embedded_url&view=original
08 April 2009
Happy
yeah... so happy!! thanks to chintz & hippo's tips, finally get to upload my slides & tickers!! though still 
struggling to adjust the blog layout, hopefully got much achievements soon!!
struggling to adjust the blog layout, hopefully got much achievements soon!! 07 April 2009
Mad
so mad..... i have created some slides show and hoping to upload in this blog.... duno wat went wrong & it 
couldn't be uploaded.... hiaz.... so sian...wonder how long i can get tis done...
couldn't be uploaded.... hiaz.... so sian...wonder how long i can get tis done...06 April 2009
Well.... is very true with the ending of 'ION'.....
The Moment you are in Tension...
You will lose your Attention...
Then you are in total Confusion...
And you will feel Irritation...
Then you will spoil personal Relation...
Ultimately, you won't get Co-Operation...
Then things will be full of Complication...
Then your blood pressure may raise Caution...
And you may have to take Medication...
Instead, understand the Situation...
And try to think about the Solution...
Many problems will be solved by Discussion
...
...This will work out better in your Profession...
Don't think it's my free Suggestion...
It's only for your Prevention...
If you understand my Intention...
You will never come again to Tension...
That's Life!
You can't decide the length of life, but you can control how you want to live it.
You can't control the weather, but you can control your mood.
You can't change your look, but you can smile.
You can't control others, but you can control yourself.
You can't foresee tomorrow, but you can utilize today wisely.
You can't win everything, but you can try your very best to achieve that.
Hope everyone can face the daily life positively and always happy...
LIVE well...LAUGH often...LOVE much...
You can't control the weather, but you can control your mood.
You can't change your look, but you can smile.
You can't control others, but you can control yourself.
You can't foresee tomorrow, but you can utilize today wisely.
You can't win everything, but you can try your very best to achieve that.
Hope everyone can face the daily life positively and always happy...
LIVE well...LAUGH often...LOVE much...
24 March 2009
○ο。°相遇不是用來生氣的°。ο○
前日往回家的公車上，一對上班族男女吸引了我的目光， 而他們的一段對話，更讓人難忘。每天搭乘公車上下班，來回通勤時間約莫近二小時，有時人少，可坐在位置上欣賞窗外的風景；人多時，也只能慢慢地擠回家， 但這時，身邊乘客的對話總會不時地傳到耳邊。
前日往回家的公車上，轉程靠站時，乘客頓時多了起來。一對上班族男女恰巧在我身邊，吸引了我的目光。可能因為人多，男的不時地將手臂圍住女的，並輕聲的問「累不累？」
「待會想吃些什麼？」 只見女的不耐煩地回答
「我已經夠煩了，吃什麼都還不先決定，每次都要問我。」
男的一臉無辜的低下頭，而後說了令我印象深刻的話。
[讓妳決定是因為希望能夠陪妳吃妳喜歡的東西，然後看到妳滿足的笑容，把今天工作的不愉快暫時忘掉。我的能力不足，妳工作上所受的委屈我沒法幫妳，我所能做的也只有這樣。」女的聽了後，滿懷愧疚的說聲對不起
。男的這才似乎重燃信心般說：
「沒關係，只要你開心就好。」而後親吻了女的頭髮。
下車前再回頭看看這對情侶，男的依舊保護著心愛的人。
這樣的情景，讓我覺得自己今天同樣在工作上有些許不愉快，如果沒有聽到這一段對話，回家後的我，可能也是一副全世界都對不起我的臭臉面對心愛的人，只在乎自己的委屈，卻忽視對方的感受，不自覺地傷害最親密的人。
所以在踏進家門時，我問自己，難道我要像公車上那位女孩一樣忍心 將自己的不滿委屈帶給身旁的人嗎？不，我想我現在應該做的是...
別再把工作上的情緒發洩在心愛的人身上， 破壞了最親密的關係，並且主動給自己一個微笑。相遇，不是用來生氣的！說得真好！當自己快抓不住情緒時，想想這句話， 應該會讓煩忙的生活，加些微笑的因子吧！
同樣地，在日常生活中，我們牽掛得太多， 我們太在意得失，所以我們的情緒起伏，我們不快樂。在生氣之際，我們如能多想想︰
「我不是為了生氣而工作的。」
「我不是為了生氣而教書的。」
「我不是為了生氣而交朋友的。]
「我不是為了生氣而作夫妻的。」
「我不是為了生氣而生兒育女的。」
那麼我們會為我們煩惱的心情闢出另一番安詳
看完之後..當你和朋友,家人爭執時..要記得你們的相遇不是用來生氣的喔!
但...人非聖賢...誰能不生氣呢… 看了這篇文章以後…記得..
下次要生氣時… 就別生太久…免得傷心、傷肝、傷腎又傷腸胃!!
Guilty
OMG... it has been almost 3 months since i last login!! time really flies.... better jia you b4 my blog remains in situ!!
12 January 2009
So Happy
Hahaha... finally i get to fix the picture on my blog after soooooo many attempts!! Really hope i'll have the time to update my blog after CNY 
09 January 2009
So Slow
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