不妨一试

很多的女性特别照顾儿子，然后都不让她孩子做事，可是她又常常抱怨先生很懒惰。但是她却又再创造一个会让下一个太太很痛苦的人出现。

刚刚又有提到哪一些是现在孩子的问题？懒惰，有没有小孩一、二岁的时候你就觉得他很懒惰，有没有？孩子都是蹦蹦跳跳的。

我记得我那个小外甥两岁多的时候，刚好有一天他母亲在擦桌子，结果擦到一半的时候母亲去做其它的事，刚好孩子就走过来，自己就开始擦了，自己擦了。因为孩子最强的能力是模仿，你很勤劳，孩子会模仿你的动作；但是勤劳的父母不见得能教出勤劳的孩子，那还要教对方法。 所以当这个孩子一跑过来，其实他会不会擦？他不会擦，哪那么厉害！他就在那里好玩一下，模仿模仿。结果我姊姊就跑过来，她说：小伟，年纪这么小就懂得帮妈妈的忙，真有孝心，好孩子。 他一听要孝顺，很好。接着又跟孩子说：小伟，你下一次擦桌子一定要记住，这个四边的角也要擦到，假如你连四边的角都懂得把它擦干净，那你擦桌子是做得非常完美，一百分。 这个孩子记住了什么？记住了做事的方法，同时也肯定了他的孝心，所以他同时学孝又学做事。

所以孩子任何一个情况都可能是你教导他的机会点出现。假如这个时候妈妈跑过来：你那么小别搅和了，妈妈擦就好。你这一只手给他推两次、推三次之后，他以后过不过来？就不过来帮忙。甚至于很多家长就说：你只要把书给我念好就好，其它的事统统不用管。「统统不用管」这句话就把孩子推到哪里去了？所以你看现在很多的太太为什么对先生颇有微词，常常都说先生的生活习惯很差。 我常常会跟这些太太沟通，我说你别怪他，因为他从小这些生活习惯都没有自己去处理，一些工作家事他没有自己去做，所以他才会袜子脱起来就乱丢。你也就别责怪他，相夫教子要慢慢教。

所以我们为人父母的人一定要把孩子教勤劳，不然你会把这个懒惰的习惯传给孩子，然后他这个懒惰的习惯还会害到别人，所以这种事不能干。很多的女性特别照顾儿子，然后都不让她孩子做事，可是她又常常抱怨先生很懒惰。但是她却又再创造一个会让下一个太太很痛苦的人出现。所以人要能够想得深、想得远，这特别重要。

所以让孩子从小做家事劳动，他才不会懒惰。

Two little footprints =)

tat day got a glimpse at both their health book when checking lance's forthcoming appointment @ polyclinic on 28.09.10 for 3 years old assessment.. found tis two little cute footprints.... my babies are growing up... now i see their feet...OMG =D

lance @ 25.09.07 (2.55kg)

zann @ 07.10.03 (2.25kg)









look at them now :

Kor Kor

Today's lance's bd... so fast he's 3 years old le!!! Lately he has been calling himself 'kor kor'.. haha.. may b he knws he has grown 1 year older =D tonite he's celebrating his birthday w jie jie zann again.. tis year we 'forgo' the usual bbq gathering at ecp.... going for dinner w in-laws side @ depot road. me so looking fwd to the 2-tier sesame street cake which i ordered from pine garden (1st time trying tis baker & 1st time ordering 2-tier cake)... bottom tier is lychee martini (as agreed by daddy) & top tier is triple layed chocolate (requested by zann).. hopefully the design not too much different from my expectation since i didnt get to see a dummy of it & hope the rest like the flavors too... initially, wanted to order the pooh & frds design which zann picked.. but the baker dun provide figurines... aggrrrr...

here's a pix of a v nice design & colourful cake ordered by my SMH frd (bbwow)...
(pix taken during 3rd birthday bash 18.09.10 @ Modestos, Vivo).


will try take & post the pix of our 2-tier cake when collecting tis afternoon..

Disney On Ice 21-03-10

I managed to download 'four precious copies' of photos taken during the recent Disney On Ice show on 21.03.2010 @ Kallang Indoor Staduim.. so quickly upload since i got a chance to blog today =D


both zann & lance not ready for the shot yet


look @ the cheeky boy!


he still dun 'co-operate' trying to 'run away'


see.. i gotta 'grabbed' his hand.. he jus dun smile!

惭愧

omg.. is been ages since i last update my blog! too busy when schl starts + cny, etc, etc..... duno when then i hv a chance to upload my photos... hiaz..